Blog archive
December 2024
President's Message
12/20/2024
A VILLAGE THANKSGIVING DAY GATHERING
12/19/2024
AgingSGV.org: A New Resource for Aging in the San Gabriel Valley
12/19/2024
Bridging Generations at Pasadena Village’s IT CAFE
12/19/2024
CELEBRATIONS ABOUND!
12/19/2024
FINDING PEACE OF MIND THROUGH FORGIVENESS AND RECONCILIATION
12/19/2024
Go Figure: Cheryl & Beth Are Skating Through Life
12/19/2024
NASA’S GREAT OBSERVATORIES – A TRIUMPH OF THE HUMAN SPIRIT
12/19/2024
THE BRIDGE BEGINS AT JOURNEY HOUSE
12/19/2024
TWO VILLAGES JOIN MISSIONS FOR THE HOLIDAYS
12/19/2024
VILLAGE CONNECTIONS AT WASHINGTON PARK
12/19/2024
What in the World is a Blue Zone?
12/19/2024
November 2024
Event of Remembrance
11/22/2024
Phishing Scams: What You Need to Know
11/22/2024
Pupusas Family Style: Another Adventurous Dining Winner
11/22/2024
Celebrating the Holidays
11/21/2024
Genealogy Group: Discovering Our Pasts
11/21/2024
Nathan Wolford – From Tragedy to Ministry
11/21/2024
Pasadena Village Board of Directors: A Brief Overview
11/21/2024
President's Message
11/21/2024
The Day of the Dead (Dia de muertos)/ Mexican Culture/Community
11/21/2024
Vintage Celebration: Aging Like a Fine Wine
11/21/2024
Review of Racism in Our Local Past
11/20/2024
Creative Juices Flow in The Village
11/19/2024
Checking In by Ed Rinderle
11/15/2024
Eagle Poem by Joy Harjo
11/15/2024
I Shall Forget You Presently, My Dear (Sonnet IV) by Edna St. Vincent Millay
11/15/2024
Pictures From Brueghel by William Carlos Williams
11/15/2024
October 2024
ARBORIST WALK: NOT FOR TREE HUGGERS ONLY!
10/29/2024
Bill Wishner: Visual Hunter
10/29/2024
Can a Village Group Fix Our Healthcare System?
10/29/2024
Community Board Directors Strengthen Village Board
10/29/2024
Connecting with Village Connections: The A, B, C, & D’s of Medicare @ 65+
10/29/2024
Grief is a Journey: Two Paths Taken
10/29/2024
Message from the President
10/29/2024
Promoting Informed & Involved Voters
10/29/2024
What Will Be Your Legacy?
10/29/2024
1619, Approaching the Election...
10/27/2024
Beyond and Within the Village - A Star is Born
10/17/2024
Happiness by Priscilla Leonard
10/11/2024
Those Winter Sundays by Robert Hayden
10/11/2024
Unpainted Door by Louise Gluck
10/11/2024
In the Evening by Billy Collins
10/10/2024
Wild Geese by Mary Oliver
10/10/2024
Betty Kilby, A Family History
10/01/2024
Betty Kilby, A Family History
10/01/2024
Betty Kilby, A Family History
10/01/2024
September 2024
Connecting with Village Connections
09/30/2024
Betty Kilby, A Family History
09/27/2024
Reflection on Life
09/20/2024
Expanding the Possibilities
09/19/2024
Need a Ride? No Problem!
09/17/2024
Security When Aging (Especially If You Are Single)
09/17/2024
The Bridge Begins at Thanksgiving
09/17/2024
The Power of Collective Service: Putting the Village First
09/17/2024
Tino Melchor - A Mentor for Young Teens in the Making
09/17/2024
Village Party Bus Delivers FUN
09/17/2024
We Don’t Know What We Don’t Know: That’s Why We Have Educational Programs
09/17/2024
On Rereading Tolle by Ed Rinderle
09/10/2024
Autumn Leaves
09/09/2024
August 2024
1619 Wide Ranging Interests
08/19/2024
1619 Wide Ranging Interests
08/19/2024
First Anniversary
08/19/2024
Alexandra Leaving by Leonard Cohen
08/16/2024
Muse des Beaux Arts by W. H. Auden
08/16/2024
The God Abandons Antony by Constantinos P. Cavafy
08/16/2024
Ch – Ch – Ch –Changes
08/15/2024
Cultural Activities Team offers an ‘embarrassment of riches’
08/15/2024
Engaging in Pasadena Village
08/15/2024
Future Housing Options
08/15/2024
Message from the President
08/15/2024
There Are Authors Among Us
08/15/2024
Villagers Welcome New Members at the Tournament Park Picnic
08/15/2024
Do Not Go Gentle Into That Good Night by Dylan Thomas
08/14/2024
A narrow Fellow in the Grass by Emily Dickinson
08/13/2024
Haikus
08/13/2024
One Art by Elizabeth Bishop
08/13/2024
Poem 20 by Pablo Neruda
08/13/2024
Still I Rise by Maya Angelou
08/13/2024
Trees by Joyce Kilmer
08/13/2024
July 2024
Alma Stokes, The Struggle in Pasadena
07/25/2024
A Poetry Gathering: Liberating Experiences Available
07/19/2024
Civil Rights Movement Series
07/19/2024
Happy Hours in Pasadena: A Villager’s Perspective
07/19/2024
Pasadena Village and the National Dialogue on Villages and Healthy Aging Research
07/19/2024
President's Message
07/19/2024
The Kern River Rafting Caper
07/19/2024
The Village Artists Group creates creative camaraderie
07/19/2024
An Example of Inherent Racism
07/14/2024
Current, Upcoming Events
07/04/2024
June 2024
No Real Recourse For Discrimination
06/30/2024
A Personal Statement of Strength and Well-Being
06/25/2024
Juneteenth Reflections
06/24/2024
Reflections on 2023-2025
06/21/2024
Reactions and Reflections Re: Juneteenth
06/19/2024
As Our Organization Grows, Villagers Recall Personal Highlights
06/17/2024
From the Outgoing President
06/17/2024
Letter from the Incoming President: Beginning Our ‘Lagniappe’ Year
06/17/2024
The Editorial Team Looks Back: Creating the Voice of the Village
06/17/2024
This Year's Resource Fair was the Most Successful Ever
06/17/2024
Telling the Whole Story
06/12/2024
Nashville
06/10/2024
May 2024
Emergency Preparedness: Are You Ready?
05/28/2024
Farewell from the 2023/24 Social Work Interns
05/28/2024
Gina on the Horizon
05/28/2024
Mark Your Calendars for the Healthy Aging Research California Virtual Summit
05/28/2024
Meet Our New Development Associate
05/28/2024
Putting the Strategic Plan into Practice
05/28/2024
Washington Park: Pasadena’s Rediscovered Gem
05/28/2024
Introducing Civil Rights Discussions
05/22/2024
Rumor of Humor #2416
05/14/2024
Rumor of Humor #2417
05/14/2024
Rumor of Humor #2417
05/14/2024
Rumor of Humor #2418
05/14/2024
Springtime Visitors
05/07/2024
Freezing for a Good Cause – Credit, That Is
05/02/2024
No Discussion Meeting on May 3rd
05/02/2024
An Apparently Normal Person Author Presentation and Book-signing
05/01/2024
Flintridge Center: Pasadena Village’s Neighbor That Changes Lives
05/01/2024
Pasadena Celebrates Older Americans Month 2024
05/01/2024
The 2024 Pasadena Village Volunteer Appreciation Lunch
05/01/2024
Woman of the Year: Katy Townsend
05/01/2024
April 2024
Rumor of Humor #2410
04/28/2024
Rumor of Humor #2411
04/28/2024
Rumor of Humor #2412
04/28/2024
Rumor of Humor #2413
04/28/2024
Rumor of Humor #2414
04/28/2024
Rumor of Humor #2415
04/28/2024
Rumor of Humor #2416
04/28/2024
Stimulated by "Caste"
04/22/2024
Tulsa reparations, Religion and Politics
04/09/2024
March 2024
Trumps War with Black Women
03/31/2024
Addressing The Needs of Older Adults Through Pasadena Village
03/25/2024
Coming Soon: More Resources for Older Americans, Online and in Person
03/25/2024
Community Building Locally and Nationally
03/25/2024
Preparing for the Future with Ready or Not
03/25/2024
Volunteering is at The Heart of the Village
03/25/2024
Women's Liberation: Then and Now
03/25/2024
Writing Memoirs Together
03/25/2024
Current Views on Current Events
03/20/2024
Unchained
03/18/2024
Rumr of Humor issue # 2409
03/10/2024
Blacks Portrayed by European Artists
03/03/2024
Rumor of Humor #2408
03/03/2024
February 2024
Caring for Ourselves and Each Other
02/27/2024
Doug Colliflower Honored
02/27/2024
Great Decisions Connects Us to the Worldwide Community
02/27/2024
Letter from the President
02/27/2024
Pasadena Village's Impact
02/27/2024
The Power of Touch
02/27/2024
Villages as a New Approach to Aging
02/27/2024
Addressing Gang Violence in Pasadena-Altadena
02/21/2024
Rumor of Humor Issue 2407
02/19/2024
Thank You For Caring.
02/12/2024
Rumor of Humor 2405
02/11/2024
Curve Balls
02/10/2024
Sylvan Lane
02/10/2024
Rumor of Humor 2404
02/09/2024
Larry Duplechan, Blacks in Film
02/03/2024
January 2024
Pasadena Village Joins Community Partners in Vaccination Campaign
01/29/2024
Rumor of Humor #2403
01/28/2024
Pasadena Village Joins Two Healthy Aging Resource Projects
01/25/2024
Decluttering: Do It Now
01/24/2024
Village Volunteers Contribute to the Huntington Magic
01/24/2024
Villagers Creating Community
01/24/2024
Villagers Reflect on Black History Month
01/24/2024
Walk With Ease, 2024
01/24/2024
Wide Ranging Discussion on Current Issues
01/22/2024
Wide Ranging Discussion on Current Issues
01/22/2024
Rumor of Humor # 2402
01/21/2024
Rumor of Humor # 2401
01/15/2024
Re- Entry Programs, a Personal Experience
01/08/2024
Little Joseph
By Edward A. RinderlePosted: 10/13/2022
Little Joseph
By Ed Rinderle
It's a crisp, autumn morning, and Ted awakens early, as usual. He gets dressed and embarks on his customary walk about his suburban neighborhood. He finds that these walks provide the best time for him to think. He muses some about the future, but mostly he reminisces. He hears the muffled sounds from a neighboring home; a group of kids has cranked up the Madden football video game on their laptops. Ah yes – autumn is the time for football. He sighs at thoughts of how different it was way back in the 1950s when he was the age of those kids. There were no video games, not even any laptops. Heck, barely any computers! Kids back then played football outdoors, unsupervised, with bruised and scraped footballs, in any venue they could find. Ted remembers . . .
A touch football game is in progress between parked cars in the street in front of Ted's childhood home. Ted is playing quarterback for a pickup team consisting of his good buddies, Marty and Sam, and “Little Joseph”. Little Joseph is a recent graduate of kindergarten, and he relishes this opportunity to play touch football with the “big kids”. The opposition consists of Tommy at quarterback and Mike, Raymond, and Herbie filling out the foursome. It's getting late, and Tommy's team has a small lead. Ted's guys have the ball with one more chance to score before dinner time and win the game.
Ted's team huddles up to get instructions for the upcoming play. Ted directs Marty and Sam using a code learned from his dad. Joseph doesn't know the codes, but Ted puts a hand on his shoulder with these instructions: “Little Joe, run over next to the green Chevy and turn around”.
The boys break the huddle. Marty picks up the ball and tosses it to Ted to start the play. Almost immediately Ted notices that Sam has put a great move on his defender, Raymond, and is breaking into the clear. Ted hurls the ball Sam's way. Sam makes the catch on the run, but with a burst of speed, Raymond catches him and tags him near the “goal line”, marked by a tar-filled crack across the street. Meanwhile, a distraught Little Joe merely watches the action from his station next to the green Chevy.
The boys are whooping it up; they are just a few yards away from the winning touchdown, and they have four tries to make it. Amid the premature celebrations, Ted notices a frown on Little Joseph's face. “I never get the ball!” moans the little guy. “You'll get your chance” promises Ted.
Tommy's team is determined not to give up easily. They manage to foil the next three plays, as they blanket Sam and Marty with stifling pass coverage. But Ted notices that in so doing they have ignored Little Joe. “I'm not sure if I've ever seen Little Joe catch a pass”, muses Ted. “But now seems like a good time to give him a shot.”
Ted huddles with his guys to prepare for their last try at a game-winning touchdown. Ted calls a play that sends both Sam and Marty to the left side of the street. Then leaning down to look Little Joseph in the eye, Ted gives him his assignment: “Hey, Joe. Don't look, but do you remember that blue Ford on the right parked in the back of the end zone? I want you to run over in front of it and turn around. OK?” Little Joseph gives a tentative nod. He sees something different in Ted's eyes., and it scares him. But only a little.
Ted's team breaks the huddle. Ted checks and sees that Little Joseph has fixed his eyes on the blue Ford. Marty tosses the ball to Ted, and again the three receivers are off and running. As Ted expected, Mike, Raymond, and Herbie have all rotated to the left to blanket both Marty and Sam. But little Joe stands all alone in front of the Ford, barely 20 feet from Ted. Ted lofts the ball underhanded in Joseph's direction, right on target. The ball nestles gently against Joe's chest. “He's got it!” cries Marty. But then the ball begins to slide down Joe's shirt. It bounces a bit over his belt. “Oh, no!” yells Sam. But then, at the last second, Little Joseph squeezes the ball between his knees, grabs it in his hands, and lifts it over his head. “Touchdown!” he exclaims. Marty and Sam immediately burst into cheers and jump in gleeful delight. Marty lifts Joe up on his shoulders while Sam shouts “You did it, Little Joe! You did it!” Across the street, Tommy and his team can only shake their heads in disbelief.
Ted's glee matches his teammates, but mixed in is a sense of relief. He is so proud of Little Joe. As Marty lowers Joe to the ground, Ted leans down, shakes his hand, and says “Way to go, my man.”
. . . Ted smiles at the memories. He lost contact with “Little Joseph” soon after that touchdown play. Joe moved with his family to a different state and a different life. Ted got involved in myriad high school and college studies and activities. He has barely thought of Joe in so long. But today he wonders what Joe is up to now after all these years. He wonders if Joe even remembers that touchdown play.
As time rolls on, seemingly small events dot our lives. Most of the time, we are not aware of the impact these events may have. But does it really matter? Ted knows that touchdown made a difference to him. Perhaps it made a difference to Joe, too.