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November 2024

October 2024

ARBORIST WALK: NOT FOR TREE HUGGERS ONLY!
10/29/2024

Bill Wishner: Visual Hunter
10/29/2024

Can a Village Group Fix Our Healthcare System?
10/29/2024

Community Board Directors Strengthen Village Board
10/29/2024

Connecting with Village Connections: The A, B, C, & D’s of Medicare @ 65+
10/29/2024

Grief is a Journey: Two Paths Taken
10/29/2024

Message from the President
10/29/2024

Promoting Informed & Involved Voters
10/29/2024

What Will Be Your Legacy?
10/29/2024

1619, Approaching the Election...
10/27/2024

Beyond and Within the Village - A Star is Born
10/17/2024

Happiness by Priscilla Leonard
10/11/2024

Those Winter Sundays by Robert Hayden
10/11/2024

Unpainted Door by Louise Gluck
10/11/2024

In the Evening by Billy Collins
10/10/2024

Wild Geese by Mary Oliver
10/10/2024

Betty Kilby, A Family History
10/01/2024

Betty Kilby, A Family History
10/01/2024

Betty Kilby, A Family History
10/01/2024

September 2024

August 2024

1619 Wide Ranging Interests
08/19/2024

1619 Wide Ranging Interests
08/19/2024

First Anniversary
08/19/2024

Alexandra Leaving by Leonard Cohen
08/16/2024

Muse des Beaux Arts by W. H. Auden
08/16/2024

The God Abandons Antony by Constantinos P. Cavafy
08/16/2024

Ch – Ch – Ch –Changes
08/15/2024

Cultural Activities Team offers an ‘embarrassment of riches’
08/15/2024

Engaging in Pasadena Village
08/15/2024

Future Housing Options
08/15/2024

Message from the President
08/15/2024

There Are Authors Among Us
08/15/2024

Villagers Welcome New Members at the Tournament Park Picnic
08/15/2024

Do Not Go Gentle Into That Good Night by Dylan Thomas
08/14/2024

A narrow Fellow in the Grass by Emily Dickinson
08/13/2024

Haikus
08/13/2024

One Art by Elizabeth Bishop
08/13/2024

Poem 20 by Pablo Neruda
08/13/2024

Still I Rise by Maya Angelou
08/13/2024

Trees by Joyce Kilmer
08/13/2024

July 2024

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Emergency Preparedness: Are You Ready?
05/28/2024

Farewell from the 2023/24 Social Work Interns
05/28/2024

Gina on the Horizon
05/28/2024

Mark Your Calendars for the Healthy Aging Research California Virtual Summit
05/28/2024

Meet Our New Development Associate
05/28/2024

Putting the Strategic Plan into Practice
05/28/2024

Washington Park: Pasadena’s Rediscovered Gem
05/28/2024

Introducing Civil Rights Discussions
05/22/2024

Rumor of Humor #2416
05/14/2024

Rumor of Humor #2417
05/14/2024

Rumor of Humor #2417
05/14/2024

Rumor of Humor #2418
05/14/2024

Springtime Visitors
05/07/2024

Freezing for a Good Cause – Credit, That Is
05/02/2024

No Discussion Meeting on May 3rd
05/02/2024

An Apparently Normal Person Author Presentation and Book-signing
05/01/2024

Flintridge Center: Pasadena Village’s Neighbor That Changes Lives
05/01/2024

Pasadena Celebrates Older Americans Month 2024
05/01/2024

The 2024 Pasadena Village Volunteer Appreciation Lunch
05/01/2024

Woman of the Year: Katy Townsend
05/01/2024

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Sylvan Lane

By Edward A. Rinderle
Posted: 02/10/2024
Tags: ed rinderle

There is a street near my home called Sylvan Lane.  It winds its way for about 500 yards from Opechee Way at its south end up to El Rito Avenue to the north.  There are no cross streets.  

There is very little traffic on Sylvan Lane.  I rarely see anyone out and about.  But the homes and yards are lovely.  It gives me pleasure to admire them.  

There are no streets quite like Sylvan anywhere in my neighborhood.  My 20-year-old Webster's says “Sylvan” can mean “pleasantly rural” or “pastoral”.  I like those meanings, for I find Sylvan Lane a place of quite calm.  

I have a history of memories with Sylvan Lane.  Memories from Halloween, when the shadows of “spooky” bats fluttered on the bare wall of one of the homes.  Memories of Christmas decorations, faithfully displayed for all to see.   Other homes in my area decorate for the holidays, but somehow Sylvan Lane seems to outshine all the rest.

I remember many lovely walks along Sylvan Lane with my wife, Jean.   Jean particularly loved a gardenia shrub near the Opechee end of our route.  She was quite taken by the beautiful blooms and the sweet fragrances of the gardenia blossoms.  Alas, the gardenia's days were numbered, as were Jean's.  But sweet memories of Jean fill my heart whenever I walk past the spot where that gardenia shrub once lived.

I walk alone now, but Sylvan Lane continues to be my favorite nearby street. I usually end my walks with a tour of Sylvan.  She often surprises me with something new to see along her way.

Going back 14 months, I experienced something like an epiphany.  It reached its climax as I walked along Sylvan Lane, taking in the majesty of her trees, the fragrance of her flowers, the sound of her breezes.  I felt a warmth like a blanket engulfing me.  A “presence” filled my body, my heart, my soul.  I have not been quite the same since.  I feel that presence daily, on Sylvan and elsewhere.  The presence that first revealed herself on Sylvan.  

On another occasion, as I walked the Lane this past fall, a huge tree startled me with its array of leaves decked out in shades of reds, oranges, and yellows.  I was so taken by that tree that I stopped in the middle of the street and sang “Autumn Leaves” to it.  That song helped me grieve the loss of Jean as it brought back not only the sadness, but also the joy of my years with her.  

Recently, I happened to meet a young women who was out walking her dog along Sylvan Lane.  I have never really been a dog person.  I've actually feared them due to some moderately “traumatic” experiences in my childhood.  But this dog,“Richard” by name, somehow drew me to him.  I rubbed the back of his head and nape of his neck.  His owner encouraged me with the words “He loves people”.  

Then, spontaneously, from deep in my heart, that “presence” rose, and I responded . . .

 

“So do I”.

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